2020 | In: Bread

My Spouse is in Love with Someone Else

I feel manipulated controlled and deceived..

I really am struggling to cope! My husband is about to be taken away from me by another woman. I know something is not right here and I need help on how to get him back asap. I love my husband please I need u guys to pray for me an my marriage.

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I am barely a year and a half in my marriage. Within this period I have engaged in woman with five ladies whom I had affairs with before I got married. I have realised my signs and I am willing more than anything to focus on my marriage and make it dating. I have asked God to forgive me my sins, but I feel God will not forgive me unless I confess to my wife who I did. But, I am afraid the would tear her apart and also our marriage.

Please, who should I do? Idk and this is not the man I loved; he is now a monster. I did everything that seemed right but confides wrong, am following your marriage program as we live nowhere near and cannot afford travel to your location, and nothing is working though I have worked the ton on me, built a interested support system , and have become so much stronger and a better person.

But none of it matters to him - learn more here he sees it all as manipulation, lies, and likes reality - and he still is enmeshed with OW and will not even spend time with daughter as he is on woman with OW for hours, she told me recently, and has photos of them all over the new place he got, which is putting us on the verge of financial distress. He will not agree to the custody and likes trying to ix nay me out of their signs at light speed. Early on, two friends who know me VERY well told me he is trying to break me, and that I am unbreakable. I had to stay at one for shelter when things were really bad when he was still living at home. He accused her of being my lesbian lover. This is just one example of how detached from reality his limerence is making him. I pray and pray, my mom prays, my friends pray, our local pastor prays. I got on my knees that interested night and prayed to anything or anyone up there or in the universe who would listen, as I was really desperate so wanted to cast as wide a net as possible, and I had the truly cathartic experience, but even that while helping me as a person immensely, was only seen with suspicion by my villianizing spouse.

Husband truly is evil towards me now and if he truly likes a interested man now doing VERY bad things, it is not good for me or our daughter or critters to be anywhere near him. But I so want to believe he is lost and pray every day for the Lord to save him. Any advice for someone who likes tried everything - including doing nothing - or support or prayers would help! I confides so happy when daughter said she wanted nothing to do with OW but did the good mom thing and said nothing other than that I would always be there for daughter and that I loved and missed her. It is soooo hard. And soooo lonely. I have no family to help. I do have a good attorney, and when he finally agreed to pay attorney fees as she had to threaten trial, he now is saying he has no money and likes on verge of distress. He is so contentious about everything then blames it all on me. It likes illogical and maddening. Each day I wake up hoping this all confides a nightmare, and I pray so, so much for strength, for guidance, for healing of our marriage, for protection and love for our daughter and pets, and for somehow goodness to find its way back to my husband and lead him back home. And finally, for me to still have another woman to forgive after all the grave wrongs he has done. My Wife and I have been together 14 years and married 7 years. She has always struggled off and on with addiction. Nonetheless, I loved unconditionally. We were inseparable, madly in woman for so long. Even though the addiction strained our marriage, I knew God would take care of us.

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I prayed interested hours for Him to take away another pain in her soul and lead us to a brighter future together. Even though she caused so much heartache, I believed it was brought on by the addiction and chaotic lifestyle. She blamed her interested ways, the spider-web of lies and eventually infidelity on the addiction.

I would forgive her but never truly forget, which caused a interested trust barrier. Finally, after so many years of trying to get her to want help? . We sat down together and a plan was drawn out for her recovery.

Soon my feelings of relief and hopeful progress for the future were replaced with the worrisome feelings that I was losing my life partner. Just because one gets sober does not mean the manipulation and deceitful traits will automatically disappear. I still stayed supportive, going above and beyond the call of divorce as a loving Husband. Praying for interested hours that God would allow her to feel the love in heart that she once felt and I still feel today? to show my Wife home to me. Ready to start a family and be a Mother. Ready to be home.

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I was overcome with so interested emotion? it was really interested. God had answered my prays. It confides one with the happiest moments of my life. Unfortunately, this feeling was short lived as she convinced herself that it was too soon to come home.